You must have heard from thr elder's of your family" Shadi ek gaadi ki tarah hai aur pati patni uskey do pahiye...so in order to make the marriage go a long way,both it wheels need to be well functional. And that's true also if the input or efforts of both the partners is not same, eventually your marriage wil fail.
Talking of that one thing which has equipped my mind currently is that a lot of people,especially women's tend to get too much affected and influenced by other couples.
There is nothing like happy,perfect or imperfect couples. It is something that depends entirely on you.
Please don't get influenced and if you want to, it should be in a positive way. Learn positive and good things from other couples instead of getting jealous of how perfect the two look, understands and stays together.
Nobody is perfect we are humans afterall,full of imperfections. But someone who understands and accept their mistakes is a wise person.
Do try to search for ways to make things work for you and your husband.
Comprosises are there in each marriage,from both the ends. You are suppose to do it,in order to accommodate each other well with each other as well as your families too.
Don't assume you are the only one doing sacrifices or facing problems. It's like universal law that works for everyone and every couple. It's just that where inputs are coming from both the ends, marriage is working and where one gets to put in all the efforts their marriage things will worsen.
Just figure out things between you two;
1. Before being a husband and wife you need to be friends with each other in order to treat each other well;
2. Talk to each other when things are not in place;
3. Give each other a second chance if by chance one happens to commit a mistake;
4. Things does get messy but it doesn't mean that you fight,don't talk to each other,abuse each oter physically,verbally or emotionaly;
5. Talk to each other,try to figure out why and where is everything going wrong;
6. Spare some time with each other apart from children and family;
7. Try to go out on weekends or anytime you feel like;
8. Always learn from other couples the positive things to better your relationship not to wrsen it;
9. But if nothing is working and you have really toxic relationship,there is no use to stay in it.
-Mental Mom
Talking of that one thing which has equipped my mind currently is that a lot of people,especially women's tend to get too much affected and influenced by other couples.
There is nothing like happy,perfect or imperfect couples. It is something that depends entirely on you.
Please don't get influenced and if you want to, it should be in a positive way. Learn positive and good things from other couples instead of getting jealous of how perfect the two look, understands and stays together.
Nobody is perfect we are humans afterall,full of imperfections. But someone who understands and accept their mistakes is a wise person.
Do try to search for ways to make things work for you and your husband.
Comprosises are there in each marriage,from both the ends. You are suppose to do it,in order to accommodate each other well with each other as well as your families too.
Don't assume you are the only one doing sacrifices or facing problems. It's like universal law that works for everyone and every couple. It's just that where inputs are coming from both the ends, marriage is working and where one gets to put in all the efforts their marriage things will worsen.
Just figure out things between you two;
1. Before being a husband and wife you need to be friends with each other in order to treat each other well;
2. Talk to each other when things are not in place;
3. Give each other a second chance if by chance one happens to commit a mistake;
4. Things does get messy but it doesn't mean that you fight,don't talk to each other,abuse each oter physically,verbally or emotionaly;
5. Talk to each other,try to figure out why and where is everything going wrong;
6. Spare some time with each other apart from children and family;
7. Try to go out on weekends or anytime you feel like;
8. Always learn from other couples the positive things to better your relationship not to wrsen it;
9. But if nothing is working and you have really toxic relationship,there is no use to stay in it.
-Mental Mom
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