It's weird but true how we tend be so judgemental about everyone we know or see around us.
And whats more weird is that we women only tend to criticize each other based on our judgements without us knowing their situation/circumstances/reasons for doing something in a particular fashion.
We behave really mean with each other at times,I don't understand why??
Why is it so hard for us to love each other??..
Ever given a thought on that??
Just because of harsh words the other person may go through a really low emotional state or even worse that you can't even imagine.
1. Raising questions on how does a women is raising her kids;
2. If she is a home maker,then also she is being questioned for what kind of a person is she ;
3. If she is a working mom,and has a helper for kids,then also she is questioned;
4. If a women questions her husband then she is wrong;
5. If a husband helps her wife to make her work easier then she is being questioned, mind that if he is your husband then its ok but if that helping husband is of someone else then that women is not good;
6. Men can feel the want to go out but not a women,afterall she is a women;
7. Wearing suits,jeans top,skirts ohh how low standards does she have;
8. If mother is not able to breastfeed she is a bad mom;
9. If she is feeding her stored milk to baby,due to her work,she is bad;
10. If she is working like a men,she is not a good women;
11. If she argues with husband for the right thing,she is not a good women also her parents didn't taught her good values;
12. If a women being married has male friends or going out with them,she is prostitute;
13. If she is raising kids all by herself,their must have been some problem with her and not the men;
14. If she is managing everything well,she is fake;
15. If she is hiding her sorrows and tears with her smile, everyone says she is all fine and happy in her life;
16. If she is a single mom and wish to restart her life fresh,then she is wanna be types;
This list goes infinite.
No matter what a women does be it single,married,divorced. They all get judged by us at every instance of life.
Don't pre assume things before knowing what a person is going through or what made them do something in a particular way.
Pay attention on your life first,then judge others.
Be peaceful with yourself and with others.
- Mental Mom
And whats more weird is that we women only tend to criticize each other based on our judgements without us knowing their situation/circumstances/reasons for doing something in a particular fashion.
We behave really mean with each other at times,I don't understand why??
Why is it so hard for us to love each other??..
Ever given a thought on that??
Just because of harsh words the other person may go through a really low emotional state or even worse that you can't even imagine.
1. Raising questions on how does a women is raising her kids;
2. If she is a home maker,then also she is being questioned for what kind of a person is she ;
3. If she is a working mom,and has a helper for kids,then also she is questioned;
4. If a women questions her husband then she is wrong;
5. If a husband helps her wife to make her work easier then she is being questioned, mind that if he is your husband then its ok but if that helping husband is of someone else then that women is not good;
6. Men can feel the want to go out but not a women,afterall she is a women;
7. Wearing suits,jeans top,skirts ohh how low standards does she have;
8. If mother is not able to breastfeed she is a bad mom;
9. If she is feeding her stored milk to baby,due to her work,she is bad;
10. If she is working like a men,she is not a good women;
11. If she argues with husband for the right thing,she is not a good women also her parents didn't taught her good values;
12. If a women being married has male friends or going out with them,she is prostitute;
13. If she is raising kids all by herself,their must have been some problem with her and not the men;
14. If she is managing everything well,she is fake;
15. If she is hiding her sorrows and tears with her smile, everyone says she is all fine and happy in her life;
16. If she is a single mom and wish to restart her life fresh,then she is wanna be types;
This list goes infinite.
No matter what a women does be it single,married,divorced. They all get judged by us at every instance of life.
Don't pre assume things before knowing what a person is going through or what made them do something in a particular way.
Pay attention on your life first,then judge others.
Be peaceful with yourself and with others.
- Mental Mom
Correctly summarized p, pay attention to your life. Keep ur self busy.
ReplyDeleteThank you Sir. Truly said sir we must keep ourself busy with our stuff,instead of poking our nose into others life.
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